Right can come

30 years ago, a young man left the homeland, began to create one's own future. The first stop where he left, was the clan elder going to visit this clan, asked to give directions. The old clan elder is practising handwriting, he hears there is a younger generation to begin to set foot on the voyage that people grow in this clan of this clan, write 3 words: Don't be afraid. Then raise one's head, look at young people and say: "The child, there are 6 words only in the secret of life, tell you 3 first today, support you half a lifetime to benefit from. " 30 years later, this young people in the past have already been the people in middle age, have some achievements, have added much painful memory too. Return journey is endless, when getting to the hometown, he goes to visit that clan elder again. He has reached clan elder's family, just knows the elder person had already passed away several years ago, family took out an sealed envelope and said to him: "This is left to you before death by a clan elder, he says you will come one day. " The alien returning to one's native just remembers, he heard the half secret of life here 30 years ago in this, open envelopes, inside is 3 big characters impressively: Don't be repentant.

Secret: Middle age don't afraid, repentant since middle age before.

  

Know James, it is on a cocktail party. Fully authorized the business in China area of company as representative to China of a trans-corporation of U.S.A.. I hope to interview him, he accepts joyfully, and scheduled time. That interview is very smooth, just when finishing quickly, do I ask what planning there is in the future in his company as usual? Think originally he will look like some entrepreneurs who interviewed before and say something " Look forward to the grand plan, realize the goal " ,etc.. I had never expected, he takes out book of a development plan of the following 15 years of company from the filing cabinet very conscientiously.
This planning was done 3 years ago, analyzed that predicted the global market environment and development trend from 1995 to 2010 inside, including industry's situation and competition situation,etc., the products are oriented and the existing task is in the future thrust at present in enterprises, which new points of growth to expand, how to set up complete organization, enterprise mechanism,etc. for the development in the future, a teaching material of university of thick picture. I can't help remembering the domestic entrepreneur who interviewed in the past, they planned too, but too grand, too abstract, some is caught up with and surpassed first-classly and entering 500 tops, ranking among the advanced ranks of the world etc., lack the concrete and careful, feasible method and analysis data. And longest one is only 5 years. Been making sure in 2010 all the time as they do, too remote! Who'd have thought what kind it will at that time be!
James has probably found out the doubt in my eyes, says worriedly: "I and came to these 6 years of China in U.S.A., contacted some entrepreneurs of China Mainland successively, they have a common characteristic, investigate a project each time, always ask first how long to receive and reciprocate. Certainly, it is necessary to pay attention to reciprocating, we will consider at first too. But a different one is, we want to do the long-term plan of one 5 years a short time, 10- 15 years middle period, more than 30 years at least, and the China entrepreneur generally only does for one year, 3 years, do not exceed the short-term plans of 5 years either longest, I feel very surprised. How is this possible? Enterprises are like people too, is a lifelike life entity, have a course of accumulating development. One want, learn, accumulate 20 several year, get 30 about years old competent at one job relatively, how can require enterprise to be years old right away getting brilliant? "
"But I think, successful pace and pace of the extinction are the same. " Saying, James had smiled, one pointed the newspaper on the desk, did not " believe we bet conveniently, read to these entrepreneurs propagated the report, can exist 10 years later. "
I stretch the tongue, shake the head repeatedly. I do not dare to hit this gamble. Don't say for 10 years, the enterprises which I interviewed 5 years ago, had mostly ceased to exist except in name now. Who dare guarantee they will be still safe and alive in 10 years?
James laughs generously: "It is in one day that Rome builds up. But responsibility in them, say, system issue with your own all either. OK, will not discuss them, talk about yourself, what is your development plan? "
"I "My face " Rise " The ground is red. James seems more startled than I, has made a gesture: "How is it planned in benefited life ten years after oneself that none of unexpectedly you let? Then how are you every day to do things? "
I wear saying ashamedly: "What is done anything is important. Not unoccupied either from morning till night, busy. "
James was staring at me a moment later, looked seriously and said: "The forest, I regard you as the friend, so should talk about a sentence of friends' words to you. Remember, there are many things done in life, but have two kinds only to sum up: One kind is critical, one is important. A lot of people are unsuccessful because they spent most time and energy on critical thing before eyes, and have no time to do the important thing. I think the correct method is - -It takes 20% of the time to deal with the critical thing before one's eyes, and leave 80% of the time in the future, do those things that but will be important afterwards as the income at the moment. Even if I did it in this way, hoped you are like this. Order one to plan in 10 years for oneself. Otherwise, you could not afford the bill then! "
  

The satisfaction received while needing, is a kind of happiness!

Have one, he before death kindhearted to enthusiastic in helping others, so until he die, rise paradise of paying, have become an angel. He still often goes to the mortal world to help people, hope to experience happy taste after the angel.

On the first, he meets a farmer, the farmer's appearance was frustrated very much, he told ©U ' our buffalo and just died to the angel, have it help, plow field, how go to the field homework I then? '

Then the angel grants him a stalwart buffalo, the farmer is very glad, the angel experience happy taste on him.

On another, he meets a man, the man is very depressed, he has told ©U ' my money to the angel and has been defrauded of the light, there is no travelling expenses to go back to the township. '

Then the angel gives him silver to do travelling expenses, the man is very glad, the angel experience happy taste on him.

On another, he meets a poet, the poet is young, handsome, talented and rich, wife's looks is beautiful and gentle, but he can not live happily.

Does the angel ask him ©U ' are you unhappy? Can I help you? '

Does the poet talk about ©U ' I have anything, only owe a thing, can you give to the angel to me? '

Angel answer ©U ' permitted. You want anything I can give to you. '

Poet's frank looking at the angel ©U ' what I want is happy directly. '

Having baffled the angel by now, the angel has thought, say ©U ' I have understood. '

Then take all what the poet has away.

The angel takes away the poet's talent, destroy his appearance, seize his property, with his wife's life.

As soon as the angel finishes these afterwards, the angel leave away.

One month later, the angel comes back to poet's side,

He was half-starved at that time, lying on the ground struggling in ragsly.

Then, the angel returns all of his to him.

Then, have left away again.

Two weeks later, the angel goes to see a poet.

This time, poets are embracing the wife, do not live and express one's gratitude to the angel.

Because he has got the happiness.


Have you felt lonely? Have you tasted happy taste?

It is originally the adjective to be lonely, bright, all was described word capital as and compared.

It is too lonely not to taste no, how to know what is meant by bright life?

Must it that the loneliness is not life be passed?

People are very strange, get and lose each time, will just know how to treasure.

In fact, ч would have just in front of you put good fortune.

When being hungry and bad, a bowl of steaming hot hand-pulled noodles is put before your eyes, happy.

When being half-deadly hard, attack the soft bed, happy too.

Cry very, nearby gentle to pass come one napkin, happy.

Not originally having absolute definition happily, some minor matters can often shake your soul too usually, happy or not, how thinks about only minding your heart.